The essence of Fraternal Correction (Reflection/Homily for Monday of the 12th week of ordinary time JUNE 2023

HOMILY FOR MONDAY OF THE TWELFTH WEEK IN ORDINARY TIME JUNE 2023.

Readings: Genesis 12:1-9; Psalm 33; Matthew 7:1-5

Theme: The essence of Fraternal Correction

In today's Gospel, Christ cautions us against the standards we employ in assessing others. His directive to refrain from judgment does not equate to ignoring the deeds or misdeeds of our brethren. It is a common misinterpretation to equate correction with judgment, leading some to dismiss well-intentioned guidance as intrusive criticism. Today's Gospel should not serve as a justification for rejecting constructive feedback. True fraternal correction is distinct from judgment; neglecting to offer it may lead us to face the same inquiry posed to Cain in the Scriptures: "Where is your brother?" A lack of accountability in this regard invites divine scrutiny.

Christ's instruction to first address our own faults before attending to those of our neighbors is often misconstrued. If we interpret this to mean that we must achieve personal flawlessness prior to aiding others, we might never extend correction, as personal growth is a continuous journey. It would be erroneous to dismiss the counsel of another based solely on their imperfections.

The Divine does not demand perfection as a prerequisite for assisting others. Rather, the admonition is against those who fail to recognize their own faults or make no effort to improve themselves, yet are eager to correct others. The principle is to concurrently work on self-improvement and extend charity towards others. If one is not committed to self-betterment, they should abstain from attempting to guide others. Rejecting the kindness of someone's counsel on the grounds of their imperfection only serves to harm oneself. Consider the efforts of parents who strive to shield their children from errors they themselves have yet to rectify, motivated by a desire to spare their offspring from similar hardships. We should welcome sound advice, regardless of the imperfections of its source.

Upon reflection, we often fall into the trap Jesus denounces—swiftly pinpointing the faults of others while overlooking our own. In a society where blame is readily assigned to external factors—be it the government, institutions, or societal structures—few recognize their own contributions to these collective shortcomings. Dismissing ourselves as mere victims is a fallacy. If we persist in identifying faults exclusively in others, societal improvement remains elusive. Christ's message is clear: we must apply the same measure of scrutiny to ourselves as we do to others. Only with clean hands can one approach the table of equity.

Hence, for a practical assimilation of this way of life, one has to take into consideration the followings: 

Self -reflection: Here, we are reminded that and unexamined life is not worth living. A life of introspection and profound reflection is of essence in our relationship with others. This can be deepened through prayer life, meditation, retreat and counseling.

Empathy: This helps us to identify with the struggles, challenges and weakness of others by putting our self in their position. It helps ameliorate the judgement we met out to others. 

Constructive feedback: when reprimanding people, we must focus on the actions and behaviours and not on the person. 

Openness to correction: This is being receptive to the truth that everyone has valuable insight to offer.

Charitable actions: Be a practical source of charity for the improvement of others rather than offering merw words and judgement.

Patience: we must be tolerant and patient with one another and change happens gradually and not so much in a radical way. Hence, kindness and forgivessness should be the our guide.

May the graces of God continually abide with us all as we impact meaningfully the lives of our brothers and sisters. Amen.

God bless you all

Fr Remi